Testimonials

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RESULTS (What people say about Ray’s ministry.)

Wow . . . is abut all I can say about Ray. He has made such a difference in my life. His love and wisdom is immeasurable. His help and guidance to myself and my family has been wonderful. Thank you, Ray.
Joanne and Alister

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Your kindness, guidance and support have helped us build a strong relationship . . . Your guidance has given [us] the tools to handle stress and anxiety.

Tony and Carol

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I have suffered from a long term illness and wanted to find a better balance in life. Ray has taught me a great deal about myself. He has incredible insight and wisdom. The results have been amazing with increased energy and passion for life. I am laughing again.

Lynda

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Ray has been a life line for my wife and me in the midst of life's challenges and trials. He has both a loving heart and the intellectual expertise to be one of those very rare people who you are very thankful for.

Rev. Don Moses, Vicar

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A small note of thanks for your valued input into our lives during a very difficult time for us. We have felt comforted by your sincerity, warmth and compassion. Your wisdom and guidance have helped us immensely and we feel better equipped for whatever the future holds. We are sorry that we did not meet you years ago.

Viv and Paul

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Ray has helped the whole family (5 of us) discover our personalities, gifts, talents, strengths and weaknesses. Now I can happily say, after listening to a practical and wise man, my relationship with my son has improved greatly and in turn we have all benefited. Thanks so much for turning our lives around.

Yvonne

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Mr. Ray Lincoln has given me the key tools in leading a happy and successful life. I look at life differently now. I see not only myself, but the world in a positive light. I have gained my self confidence back. I believe I can accomplish anything I put my mind to, anything. I feel truly blessed to know Mr. Lincoln. He’s brilliant!

Darren

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The parenting seminars offered by the Lincolns were very well-presented and organized, but more importantly they were insightful, educational and really fascinating. We learned a lot about ourselves, each other and our children and feel we have a deeper awareness of our family. We often find ourselves discussing the principles we learned in the Lincolns’ class and applying them to everyday situations. Understanding more about our temperaments allows us to trust our own instincts and have more confidence in our responses. The Lincolns’ seminar has helped us to spend less time worrying about our parenting and more time enjoying our children.

Bryan and Sarah Adderholt

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The Lincoln Ministries seminars that I have attended were educational and helpful in understanding myself and other people. As a retired teacher with 30 years experience in the classroom, I highly recommend these seminars. I only wish I could have participated in them early in my career.

Dr. Lincoln is a man of Christian integrity. He does an excellent and knowledgeable presentation of the material. His Biblical perspective is exceptional because of his theological knowledge. This made the information much more meaningful for me

Agnes Rand

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I have had the opportunity to be involved with Pastor Ray both through his seminars and through personal coaching. Both experiences have been a tremendous help in understanding myself, my wife, my children through my relationship with God. Pastor Ray has helped me develop a greater appreciation of my personality, how it fits in with the rest of my family, and how by understanding who I am and the members of my family I have a better relationship with them, one filled with love for each other and for God and Jesus Christ. Through Pastor Ray, I have a better understanding of how we are all "hard-wired" by God.

What has been of most help to me are the tools that Pastor Ray has given me to look at the connections between my relationships and my personality. Those tools have been a great help in my own development as a Christian and a person, have helped me significantly improve my relationship with my wife, and become a better parent for my children. The tools and advice that he gives really do work!

Pastor Ray also has a way of relating to my wife and I that makes our coaching experience fantastic. He has the ability to encourage, challenge, support, and lend a shoulder to cry on that I have found hard to find. He is "gentle, but firm"; a loving, caring guide to personal improvement and Christianity.

Matt Guy

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I have attended two of Ray's seminars and had numerous conversations with him. With his leadership you will understand how you are made, how others are made, how to communicate and how to relate with others far more effectively. This highly intelligent, deeply moving, effective presenter will enrich your life beyond imagination! Individuals, couples, parents and grandparents will benefit beyond measure from Ray's thorough knowledge and expertise.

Delbert Rand

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Since I have been meeting with Dr. Ray Lincoln I have been able to overcome major obstacles in my life. Ray helped me to understand who God made me, and how to live in my natural God given strengths, which is crucial to living life to its fullest! I have spent much of my life questioning why I feel and think certain ways. It is liberating to view myself as God sees me! Ray has given me understanding that produces immediate results which allow me to relax and enjoy life. I have recommended him to all of my friends and family and he has strongly impacted their lives as well. With his years of education and experience, he can guide you through anything life brings your way.

Adrienne

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My husband and I were eating our dinner together the other night as he paused and said, “I am truly happy, and it’s not because of some exciting thing that is going on right now; I am just happy.” The Life Coaching that we have received from Ray Lincoln was an integral part of coming to this space in our life. Learning key information about our individual temperaments allowed us to see our partners and our selves in an even brighter light. The life coaching taught us how to lean on our partner’s strength so much that it lifted our own weaknesses, and in so doing, we were both able to overcome personal challenges with great support from one another. As we continue this practice, we celebrate in an ongoing dance with each other. The knowledge we gained from the life coaching is invaluable; we Thank You.

Chris and Sarah Barnes

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My husband Jaime and I were referred to Ray Lincoln by a close mutual friend. Our family had undergone some major changes in the past few years. I went back to school for my Masters in Nursing, I went from part time to full time at the hospital, we sold a house and bought a brand new house, rented an apartment while it was being built and we have a 4-year old son. Although my husband and I had been together for over 10 years and had not experienced any difficulties in our relationship, these changes took their toll. In the process of juggling school, work, and home life demands, we lost sight of what was holding it all together, our relationship.

The first thing Ray did was our personality assessments. Then he explained how our personality affects everything we do. Whether it is how we deal with stress, each other, work, or our son, it all comes back to who we are. This set the stage for us to objectively examine how we were functioning and why it was causing us so much distress. Looking at our behavior from the aspect of personality was such a non-threatening way to discuss our issues. Our feelings were validated and we were able to see each other in a whole new light. Although my husband and I are alike in many ways, Ray was able to point out that it is our differences that we needed to be aware of and acknowledge.

I would be confident in stating that Ray Lincoln saved my marriage. He was able to guide us to a place of understanding that we were not able to achieve on our own. His non-judgmental and supportive style was vital in allowing us to trust in him and in each other. There will always be bumps in the road, however, Ray has taught us that that bumps are to be expected and they are normal. He has validated our strengths, actualized our goals and given us the tools we need to take care of ourselves. I would wholeheartedly recommend his expert guidance to anyone seeking life coaching.

Sincerely,

Lisa Davila

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Ever since she was an infant, my daughter was a "high needs child." Although she was perfectly healthy, she was very intense. As she became older, that intensity was amplified; she could be an angel one minute and railing and throwing herself violently around the room. Strange things would spark explosive behavior. Knowing she's not a bad little girl, I knew something was wrong. I'd tried everything in the books, with a heavy emphasis on negative consequences and the results were worse behavior.

Dr. Lincoln honed in on exactly what was happening with our daughter and provided the unwritten "specification sheet" for who she is, how she reacts, and what motivates and affects her. His parenting approach is ultimately gentle with a rich and rewarding outcome. Our home has become much more peaceful and our relationship with her is beautiful. When there is an explosion of emotion, I am learning to respond to her in a way that will help ease the situation, figure out what the problem is and help her work through it, rather than react with my own anger. Dr Lincoln's guidance has been invaluable to us; we are truly enjoying the amazing gift we've been blessed with in our daughter. She is a happy and content little girl who knows she is valuable to us, and she is learning to respond in a positive way even when the answer is a "no" or "wait."

Jennifer Peters